Chatty Tuesday #2

The Bachelor!!!!!  OMG! That sneak of next week nearly broke my heart in pieces. But before we dig into that lets break down the woman tell all! I mean seriously, I did not get all I need in those two hours to move on, lol! I needed more realness. I do Bachelor like I do anything in life all in or nothing. First Olivia, um... yea I think they went after her. I think her "teen" mom comment was insensitive that the time but totally was unintentional as she mentioned. It was taken out of context and I really think that she was just sitting there thinking she was speaking to a group girlfriends when it happened but America just happened to be there too.  At the women tell all she was apologetic and sincere. Jubilee was attacked right out the gate and although she is really well spoken she somehow lacks a major filter and at times make sense and then none at all. LOL! She really is confusing and complicated. Caila, oh she played her cards right to become the next bachlorette, or so she thought because in my opinion she played it too safe. I really wish she would have really said how she really felt and that would have cemented her bachlorette role. Other then that no real issues were brought up and Ben did a tactful job of making sure he did was not on the receiving end of that fire squad as Chris Harrison mentioned. As I watched the sneak peek of The Final Rose, my heart raced and broke into a tiny million pieces for the girl in the bathroom with Ben as he admits he is in love with the other woman as well. OMG moment for sure! From the looks of it I need at least 2 bottles of wine for next Monday. As far as the Bachlorette I really feel that it would be JoJo and she would be an awesome one. Because of the blogs and after shows it really feels like Lauren is the one that lands Bens ring since obviously both landed Ben's heart. If you really want to break down every episode you should really listen to After Buzz The Bachelor on your Podcast!  Be back next Tuesday!!!

Thanks for visiting!!

The Bachelor Week 4

The Bachelor!!!! Ben H! I love MONDAYS! Three hours all to myself! lol Well sort of. My 6 year old and 4 year old watch sometimes lol. Ryan my 6 year old was off to bed when he saw mommy hooked on the TV that no one could move her which is a rare thing. He started watching with me and our conversation went something like this:
Ryan: "OK mommy, so this guy is dating all these woman and he only gets to pick one?"
Me: "Yes"
Ryan: "Oh that's hard!"
Me: "Yes, maybe one day you'll be on the show!"
Ryan: "No, Thanks! lol"
At this point in the show Ben is on a one on one date with Jojo and the other women watch them kiss.
Ryan: "That's bad...I would be mad! lol"
Me: "Its a part of the show."
Ben and Jojo take off on a helicopter and in comes another date card. On this date card it was a group date so, several women's names were on the card.
Ryan: "So all those woman are going on the date??"
Me: "Yes!"
Ryan: "Oh no mommy how are they going to fit all in that helicopter???"
Me: "lol, they are not going on the helicopter!"
Ryan: "oh thank god!"
Then he turns around and falls sound asleep. lol

Yesterday I learned that Becca annoys me and that I am starting to get attached to some of the ladies. 

Looking forward for week 5 next Monday!

Better Mommy Body

It is a know fact that you do not have the same body after your children, even if you lose the "baby weight" and you didn't get any stretch marks or your body shows no poof that baby was ever in you, having a child in your uterus forever changes your body weather it be inside or out.

I personally have struggled with losing the baby weight and toning my tummy. It just is never the same as before I had my children and even though I am right now physically stronger then ever before my tummy is still a "mommy tummy".

One thing I have learned so far is that you are where you deserve to be. You have to work hard for everything you have accomplished in life. Goals are meant to give you an idea of what you want to achieve but you should always reach for more then your goal.

One of the most important things you should have when you are prepping yourself for any goal is your WHY, your WHY is what will keep you motivated and on track long after that feeling of you can goes away. Your WHY should be the nitty gritty, the very essence of your core. It should scare you straight because it should make you want to be better, it should make you loose sleep, it should push you when you can't push yourself. It should be your motivation EVERY SINGLE DAY!

The only way to be successful in anything is to read your WHY everyday.

Success starts with yourself...why because you can't lie to yourself! Because you know if you have done everything in your power to surpass your goals. You have to make it happen! You have to step up and tell yourself that I can't is NOT an option. You have to HUSTLE. You have to have HEART!

I wake up everyday and think I have to workout out today....and yes there are days I wake up and say, "not today!" but then I tell myself you can not complain about your belly because you do not deserve you because you have not done the work.

INSTAGRAM, oh INSTAGRAM keeps me motivated. I follow fitness people! So when I can feeling unmotivated pop on there and you will be motivated in a second. One of my favorite people to follow is Noel Benepe. She is amazing and she offers a $10 monthly workout every month! They are killer but they are so worth it. Right now I am on week 2 of her January workout schedule.

You have to start somewhere, but you have to START! If you would love an accountability partner please let me know! I am looking to form a motivation group!

So here is to a better MOMMY BODY and a better attitude too!

Beacuse I am worth it!

As a wife and a mom sometimes you lose yourself in those titles. Being the best mom you can be. Being the best wife you can be. Its so EASY to lose yourself. When I got married I became Juan Carlos wife. When I had Ryan and Stacy I became Ryan and Stacy's mom. You lose your identity as an individual. Did I mind that? Absolutely not. I love being a wife and being a mom it brings so much joy to my life and being a mom is just everything I ever dreamed of.

2016 hmmm... I have been dreading you! Stacy officially starts school and I am from 8-3 going to be just Daisy! Scary! For the past years I have focused solely on my family. I sort of lost myself, who is Daisy? This year I have to get to know me and I would love to take you on that journey.

The adult Daisy is so much different then the teen Daisy and the "20 something" Daisy. She knows what she wants and she knows that hard work is the only way to get it. She is stronger then she has ever been. She wants to achieve things she knows are not easy but loves a challenge. She is determined. She still jumps blindly into things but only with things she believes in her heart are worth the risk. She has values and knows she is worth it and but it I mean in every aspect. That's what I know so far.

So here we go!

Kate Gosslin...I just have to give my opinion!

I have been a fan of the show Jon and Kate plus 8 since the beginning and I have to admit that I felt so bad for those children when the show became as big as it did and as a result the divorce came through from Jon and Kate. As a reality junkie as I have admitted before I just KNEW it would happen but hope they would overcome it.

Jon says "it not a midlife crisis" I say"YES IT IS!!!!". I think she has handled it all with grace! Jon I was on your side in the beginning why why why did you make me hate you! LOL!

I've been watching her on The VIEW and I think she fits in well....I know its temporary but who knows maybe she'll get picked up to do some sort of show.

BTW, I liked her hair today on The View much nicer, do you think?