Better Mommy Body

It is a know fact that you do not have the same body after your children, even if you lose the "baby weight" and you didn't get any stretch marks or your body shows no poof that baby was ever in you, having a child in your uterus forever changes your body weather it be inside or out.

I personally have struggled with losing the baby weight and toning my tummy. It just is never the same as before I had my children and even though I am right now physically stronger then ever before my tummy is still a "mommy tummy".

One thing I have learned so far is that you are where you deserve to be. You have to work hard for everything you have accomplished in life. Goals are meant to give you an idea of what you want to achieve but you should always reach for more then your goal.

One of the most important things you should have when you are prepping yourself for any goal is your WHY, your WHY is what will keep you motivated and on track long after that feeling of you can goes away. Your WHY should be the nitty gritty, the very essence of your core. It should scare you straight because it should make you want to be better, it should make you loose sleep, it should push you when you can't push yourself. It should be your motivation EVERY SINGLE DAY!

The only way to be successful in anything is to read your WHY everyday.

Success starts with yourself...why because you can't lie to yourself! Because you know if you have done everything in your power to surpass your goals. You have to make it happen! You have to step up and tell yourself that I can't is NOT an option. You have to HUSTLE. You have to have HEART!

I wake up everyday and think I have to workout out today....and yes there are days I wake up and say, "not today!" but then I tell myself you can not complain about your belly because you do not deserve you because you have not done the work.

INSTAGRAM, oh INSTAGRAM keeps me motivated. I follow fitness people! So when I can feeling unmotivated pop on there and you will be motivated in a second. One of my favorite people to follow is Noel Benepe. She is amazing and she offers a $10 monthly workout every month! They are killer but they are so worth it. Right now I am on week 2 of her January workout schedule.

You have to start somewhere, but you have to START! If you would love an accountability partner please let me know! I am looking to form a motivation group!

So here is to a better MOMMY BODY and a better attitude too!

My confession

I am a huge teary eye person! I read anything about losing babies, abortions, adoptions and I will lose it I mean I will cry my eye balls out. Right after I read something like that I run straight for my son and thank my lucky stars he is such a healthy boy.

I feel bad for woman who can't conceive and it saddens me that they long to feel their baby in them. For a long time before I was even pregnant I always thought that when I was ready to conceive I would not be able to and I would be devastated.

That is my confession for today!

Here is a pic of my little monster and dream come true!

Confession 1

My confession is that's MY HOUSE IS ALWAYS CLEAN. Yep, that right my house is never a mess, EVER LOL! No thanks to me though, it's my hubby whom is a clean freak that demands the house be like that. Think I'm lucky, not so fast. He is a ULTRA SUPER DUPER CLEAN FREAK.....he cleans like no other man I know. Before he goes to work he cleans, and when I wake up there is no mess (great not so....a to do list he LEFT is still pending LOL!). There is never a dirty dish in the sink EVER....his major pet pevee.

Oh but you know what is my PET PEVEE.....his cleanfreakness.....I wish he could just be a bit laid back. Sometimes I want to wake up and mess up the house LOL! Oh, I forgot to mention my truck is SUPER CLEAN.....it has to be washed once a week and when you get out of the truck you can not leave anything, and I mean ANYTHING(he will find it).

I guess there is an upside....since he is so worried about everything being perfect....Nothing is ever missing from the refrigerator or food cabinets he insist they are kept full. GREAT!

Well, that is my confession and I think HUGE dilema!